The best engineers know how to read the room. This is not really an engineering problem, it’s a people problem. The engineers people trust most are the ones who know when to reassure, when to stay quiet, and how to make others feel understood.
AI makes ‘one more prompt’ irresistible. The next feature is always ten minutes away. The hardest engineering skill in the age of AI isn’t building. It’s deciding when to ship.
AI makes writing code so cheap that iterative enhancement stops making sense. Instead of refining small slices, teams are regenerating entire features and iterating on the whole thing. Agile isn’t dead, but its assumptions are bending hard.
AI made code cheap. The bottleneck was never the code. It was scoping, estimation, and communication, the skills teams treated as optional for years. That bet no longer pays off.
